Good day my wonderful people, I want us to treat an issue together today. I got a mail from a reader today and it goes this way:
Good day Mr. Abraham. My name is (name withheld) and I'm a good reader of your blog. I have an issue which I intend to seek your advice on. I am in a long distance relationship which has lasted for 3 years and my man LOVES ME so much. He does anything I ask him and has never been unfaithful to me. He is kind, he is nice and very respectful. He promised to get married to me very soon and I believe him because he always keeps to his word, just that he is still trying to put some things in place so that we can have a good marriage.
My problem is I met a guy some months ago who likes coming close to me, he loves being around me and has been showing so much interest in me. I always think of him and now I don't know what to do because he seems nice every time I observe him. He said he loves me and he wants to date me but hasn't said anything concerning marriage. I love my boy friend who is not around me but the distance is getting to me and I'm beginning to think maybe I should accept the proposal of this new person that lives around my environment. Kindly advise me on what to do please! END.
Thank you so much my sister for this awesome and heartfelt confession. Keep up your honesty. however there are things I want to point out to you in your mail.
1.You said your boy friend loves you and he is faithful to you but he is far away? My response to this is 'distance is nothing where true love exists'. A faithful man is a man of integrity. According to you, you're not with him but you're sure he is faithful. If he's faithful to you despite being far from you I'd advise you not to give up such a man. There are many women who have their men living with them and yet not faithful to them. Being faithful to you even while far from your sight is a sign that you have a potential good husband in your life.
2. You said the new person you met likes being around you and this makes you like him? My answer to this is EVEN DEVIL CAN LOOK LIKE AN ANGEL IF YOU DON'T KNOW HIM YET. Because he likes being around you does not guarantee he will forever be around you. Every marriage that ended with divorce started with laughter and expression of likeness between the couple.
Because a man smiles at you and plays with you doesn't mean he won't beat you some day.
Lack of patience is why many are suffering unbearable hardship in their marriage today.
If you're sure the man you have does love you and faithful to you despite the distance, I'll advise you to BE PATIENT AND STICK TO HIM. DON'T LET HIM REGRET BEING FAITHFUL TO YOU EVEN WHEN YOU COULDN'T SEE HIM. IF YOU WANT THE RIGHT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE TRY TO BE THE RIGHT PERSON FIRST. IF YOU LEAVE HIM BECAUSE SOMEONE CLOSE IS COMING AROUND YOU NOW THEN YOU'RE NOT A RIGHT PERSON FOR ANY GOOD MAN TO MARRY.
MY SISTER PLEASE DON'T MAKE A LIFE TIME MISTAKE BECAUSE OF IMPATIENCE OR DESPERATION.
I HOPE THIS IS HELPFUL ENOUGH TO YOU?
DOES ANYONE ALSO HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR OUR LADY? KINDLY PLEASE DROP IT IN THE BOX AND LET'S HELP HER CHOOSE RIGHT.
Yours' truly,
Adebiyi Abraham
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