WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT MEN.

There's a need for the women to understand the world of men. Men are people who have needs just like women but understanding this is where some women find things difficult. There's a thing that men don't like and I think women should know that.

What are these things men don't like? Let's keep the conversation going.

MEN DON'T LIKE TO BE LOVED JUST BECAUSE OF THEIR MONEY.

 Men don't like it when you love them just because of their money. They want you to love them for whom they are as a person and not because of their money. Loving a man because of his pocket is a no no. There's nothing that turns a man away from a woman like loving him just because of his money. When you love or intend to be in relationship with any man focus on his personality and not his pocket or wallet.

You will never have the true feelings or love of a man if he gets the signal that what you love about him is his money. If what you're after a man because of his money don't be surprised if he dumps you. Those who don't dump would use the woman in return when they find out they're being loved because of their money, and If you're loving a man, don't love him just because of his money but his personality.

MEN DON'T LIKE TO BE COMPARED WITH THEIR SUCCESSFUL FRIENDS WHO SEEM PERFECT TO YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW THEIR FLAWS.

Don't compare your man with any man no matter what. The reason you think a man is more perfect than your man is because you haven't see the man behind the closed door. You've not seen that which makes you want to wonder how to cut off the weakness of that man. You only know the ideal self of the man and not his real self. IF GOD COULD SHOW YOU THE TRUE IDENTITY OF THAT PERSON WHO LOOKS PERFECT IN YOUR EYES, WOULD HE STILL LOOK PERFECT? NO MAN IS PERFECT BECAUSE WHAT LOOKS GOOD TO YOU IN THAT MAN IS WHAT ANOTHER WOMAN HAS CULTIVATED. CULTIVATE YOUR OWN MAN AND MAKE OTHER WOMEN FEEL JEALOUS OF YOU TOO. A man is competitive in nature and doesn't like to be told how he's not up to standard. 

There are ways you can call a man's attention to his deficiency without bruising his ego. Example is by telling him like this :' I know you're not perfect and I don't expect you to, but I'd be grateful to you if we work on this........area so that life and things can be better for us'. Never ask a man why he can't behave or live like his so so so friend. The reason is simple and it's because they were trained by different parents. If you try to compare a man to his friends who are doing well don't be surprised if he responds to you with anger.

MEN DON'T LIKE IT WHEN YOU HATE THEIR PARENTS.

No matter how much you love him and wants to be with him, if you do not like his parents you can't have his love. The only ground which can make a man not to have problem with you for hating his parents is if he has problems with his parents,  too. If you love your man you must learn how to love his people also. A man who knows you love his parents would do the same to you; he would love your parents like his own and always want the best for them too. A man always loves and wants to be there for his in-laws if he knows his woman loves his parents too. If you're wise try and develop a good relationship with your in-laws. If you do this you would even be so close to them to the extent that they would never want you to be far away from them while they take you like friends and not their daughter in-law. A wise woman builds her house is what my bible tells me. If you want your man to hate you try hate his parents.

MOST MEN LIKE WATCHING FOOTBALL AND DOESN'T WANT YOU TO STOP THEM

Men have strong nature for games and competition, while women are attention seekers in nature. This could generate conflict between a woman and her man if she doesn't know how to manage this difference between herself and her man. Some women see it as a disease when a man doesn't give them attention at that exact time they need it just because he can't do without watching his football match, this often makes them want to fix such man or point to him that he needs  a rehabilitation center to cure his football addiction, and there comes a recipe for disaster. You would be amazed when you hear how many homes something like this has brought problem to because they didn't know how to manage such situation. when a man is so bent on watching his game pick up a spot beside him instead of trying to get him not to watch the match. Participate in his hobby and don't judge him for liking it, you'd be surprised how much real attention you would get from him after you have participated and also allow him to enjoy his football game. 

Having learned all these about your man would it not be nice if you apply wisdom to manage your differences?

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Your's truly,

Adebiyi Abraham.