Should I Take My Ex Back After He/She Dumped Me

Your past, your present, your future. Build a relationship that counts.... (Story Of My Life)

SHOULD YOU TAKE YOUR EX BACK AFTER HE/SHE HAS DUMPED YOU FOR SO LONG? READ THIS TILL THE END TO FIND OUT PLEASE.

This is my personal life I am willing to share so others could learn from.  I grew up with a decision that I will always be a nice and faithful man in relationship. That no matter how others treat me I'd hold firm to my virtue as a person and would not let anything change my decision. I have been so close to a powerful mother who single-handedly raised a reliable man out of a boy I was. May God bless my mother and all mothers who stand up for their children all around the world.

What do I mean by my past?

This represents the people I dated before I met my wife, I had dated four people before her and the past experience wasn't a good thing to talk about. Read on please....

The first person I dated left because she needed baby at that tender age of her and I wasn't ready for that as a 16 year-old boy. I didn't want to impregnate someone and not be able to take good care of my child. It wasn't my plan and her plan was having a baby at 16 so she walked away.

The second person cheated with a friend of mine when I travelled out of my state for some time and when I found out I ended it.

The third person was scared of committing to the relationship due to what people had done to her in the past so we parted amicably.

The fourth one walked away because her parents wouldn't accept her marrying someone from a tribe other than her's and she didn't want to give me  hope of a future together so she walked away, too.

WHERE AM I GOING WITH ALL THIS STORY? READ ON PLEASE....

 My present is my wife whom I'm with and building a great future together with now, and out of nowhere the first three people I dated are calling me to come back into my life. You're surprised too? please don't be.

These people had moved on with their lives and got married to different people with children but with reasons best known to them, the first two have separated from their husbands and the third one is about to do the same. They managed to get my phone numbers from my facebook page and began to beg me to take them back. BUT I AM A WISE MAN.

I HAVE A GOOD PRESENT, AND MY FUTURE CAN NEVER BE DESTROYED.

I know you want to know what I did to them. I blocked them and shut them down because I don't need my past. The reason is because I know what it means. It's a trap that devil always sets up for people when they reach their point of breakthrough. 

He'd try to use a familiar enemy(their past) to entice them by influencing their present in order to prevent them from having their desired future.

Please be wise my people. 'SOME PEOPLE ONLY BELONG IN YOUR JOURNEY AND NOT YOUR DESTINATION'. Who ever leaves you along the way can't be your destiny at the same time. 

GOD DOES NOT RECYCLE RELATIONSHIP. DON'T MAKE A MISTAKE OF THINKING SOMEONE WHO ONCE LEFT YOU CAN COME BACK AND NOT LEAVE YOU AGAIN,  YOU'D BE SHOCKED WHAT PEOPLE LIKE THAT CAN DESTROY IN OTHER PEOPLE.

WHEN YOUR PRESENT IS SWEET AND YOUR PAST SHOWS UP, YOU SHOULD KNOW IT'S DANGEROUS TO ALLOW THE PAST TO STAY.

DON'T EVER RECYCLE RELATIONSHIP.  LET PEOPLE KNOW YOU'RE SPECIAL AND NOT A REBOUND. 

Say bye bye to your past and let people in your past go with it. Embrace your present and create your dream future with it.

'STARVE YOUR PAST AND FEED YOUR FUTURE'.

STAY FOCUSED ON WHERE YOU'RE GOING IN LIFE AND NOT WHERE YOU'VE BEEN THAT DID NOT FAVOUR YOU. 

REACH FOR SOMETHING NEW AND LIVE YOUR LIFE LOOKING FORWARD INSTEAD OF BACKWARD. REJECT YOUR PAST, BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR PRESENT AND REACH FOR YOUR FUTURE.

 MAY GOD GIVE US HAPPINESS IN LIFE. 

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